#7 GETTING EVICTED AND MOVING TO BALI

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Hello and welcome to Spill the Tea with Kirsty and Beau following Kirsty. Episode number 6. 5. Oh 5,Fuck! Can we do it again now? Well, we live right? Episode number five. Now to this code. Today's episode is called evicted and moved to Perth. Oh shit. That is really fucked up. Fucking. Okay, this is how royally our guys. Andrew today moved to Bali, evicted and moved to Bali.

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Unknown

Let's talk about it. Oh shit. That was a journey. So it all started one summer's day. And how did it start? Had it moving the body become a thing? That one summer's day I was on the beach doing a breath session. So every single morning I used to go down to Coogee Beach and do a breathwork session.

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Unknown

And I was in this full trance and was people around me, and I was in the middle of the grass and Coogee during the session. And then this massive download came in and said you need to go to Bali. And so I came out of it healing and finished it came out of it with a full message and to go to Bali.

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Unknown

And then I missed it. I rang you up and I said, hey babe, we're going to go to Bali this week. Can you please go and book flights? And we had sung on that weekend so we couldn't go into, I think, that couple days later. So seven days later we went to Bali. Did we already have plans of kind of going over there at this point?

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Unknown

And then you did the breathwork and you're like, not we have to go. I think we kind of talked about it. Yeah. Because I remember, when we looked at it not being like extremely low prices or something, I think, what the fuck, this is supposed to happen? Yeah, I think a couple of I saw that strike couple weeks prior was like, no, I think we may we had I think we looked at flights.

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Unknown

Yeah. And then yeah, then we looked at the flights again. It was super cheap. Yeah. That's right. So we're like okay cool alignment. Let's go. So we headed off to Bali. Harvey's first flight. Harvey's first flight was very exciting. And we also did that because we are on a world tour to sort of see what it would be like to fly with Harvey, because it was Harvey to fly.

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Unknown

We're going to Europe and America this year and all that kind of stuff. So two year old, you know, to Europe. Yeah, he was incredible. Absolutely amazing. We were blown away. We're like, holy shit for yeah. And it was the same time he slept. It was this. Yeah. It was really, really good experience for us. And so we got into Bali and you know, I say to every single person, Bali is a feeling.

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Unknown

And you automatically feel good. Yeah. You automatically feel happy, calm, at peace and humble. I truly believe that's stressed out. Yeah, I just know anxiety. And one thing I want to add on that is when you hear, like we said the other day, there's less judgment, right? You can walk around with like a fake Gucci bag, a Louis Vuitton bag, and you don't actually feel the judge.

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Unknown

You know, no one gives a fuck. No, you know, kids bikini, no ones. And you can wear like people walking anything. That's right. That goes walk guys just run blocks. So you walk in shops with no shirt on. No one cares. No shoes on. No one gives a fuck. Yeah. And, Yeah. And the thing is, it's different here.

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Unknown

Yep. And the thing is, like, I even say, like, you can ride a little 50 CCP scooter and be a big guy covered in tats, and it's just normal. Like they you don't even think about it. But if you were to write that in Australia, something about, look at this ticket, look at this guy going on his stupid little scooter.

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Unknown

And then that's crazy. When you come here, everything is exactly like that. You can wear your hair the way you want to wear it. You can wear no makeup, you can have extensions hanging out. No one gives a fuck and no one cares. There's no judgment. And that's that's what I love about Bali. And like I said, you know, Bali is a feeling.

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Unknown

And anyone that comes here, you just know you feel good the moment you hit the soil. And, you know, I was speaking to someone yesterday about like how Bali made me feel. And it's true because Bali is blessed. Everywhere you go, people are blessing everything. You know, you go outside the shops. These blessings out there, you know it.

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Unknown

Blessings in the road, blessings in the shops is blessings everywhere. So Bali is energetically feels good. Yeah, it's got a good energy. And in that time I'm so we've been here a couple of days, you know, we were launching Shiba a success, which has been my baby and we never knew how it was going to go, so we did too.

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Unknown

Can you explain what she meant? Successes. Shiba success. Well, I was is not around anymore. I wish this wasn't a failure. But you still have that, community, right? I see what the community. Yes. And they've all moved away. Success. Yeah. So, Shiba is. This was an affiliate driven program, designed to, sell on our on Focus program, which now is this and on all combined together.

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Unknown

We still had the same community. Those girls have all come over to where success is absolutely beautiful. Love those girls. And so, we had the session to info sessions in Bali, and I said to myself, if we make X amount of money, we will stay for longer. So we had had tickets booked for 12 days, we had a return flight and the next day it was like bing bing bing bing bing bing bing and all these people were signing up and I was like, Holy shit.

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Unknown

So Barlow to me and we talked about like, you know, if we got some money, I'd get a tattoo. And we got on the, we got on the, scooter and is like, so are you going to get etc.? I was like, yeah, okay. And if you've seen my back, I have my whole back tattooed now with, Buddha on the mandala.

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Unknown

Yeah. And mandala all around it, you know, and, very meaningful for me and my style of life. And you know, what I'm about. And so. Yeah. Then waste. Right. So then when I take all my other two kids, my older kids were in Perth, I was like, well, let's get them over. And I think it was like, you know, are really incredible moment for us because everything was shifting pretty fast.

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Unknown

Everything was shifting pretty fast in the business. Everything was shifting pretty fast energetically. How we felt and also money wise, you know, so there was massive moves happening within our life, within ourselves and everything around us. So we went, okay, cool, let's let's fly the kids over. And then we had the next challenge, Noah's passport. So we didn't know that Noah's possible was expired.

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Unknown

You have no idea how hard it is to renew a New Zealand passport when you're currently in Indonesia. He's living in Australia, and he's got a New Zealand passport. So it was super, super challenging. I was training him, my brother, to go get his photos done. Then he sent me through his photos. They were like too big for the photo to do.

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Unknown

That was fine. So then I was like, what's that thing called that? You have to use New Zealanders that we remember the name of the platform. I yeah, I don't know, but it was. Yeah, some weird some and I wouldn't accept it. I want to see the photos. I was big and I was like, Why is Noah's head too big?

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Unknown

I wasn't fitting in this. And then I reached out to his dad to help me. And then, you know, like, yep, that was just a whole nother thing. And like, you know, he was like, you know, what can you do? I said, do you honestly think that I reached out to you and asked you to help me if I fucking could handle myself?

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Unknown

Like, come on, you know, like, I don't off any help, like, this is what I need. And so, anyway, you were locked out of that place. It was also no help. Just like that. It was no help. So, yeah, I was locked out of the platform, and then it was like, you know, it's gonna be 30 days to get back.

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Unknown

And I was like, what do you mean? And so anyway, through some stroke of luck, because Beau is very, very persistent. If you know my partner, he is just what he wants. And he one of the kids over and oh, we had to go home or we had to go home. So that was going to be the choice.

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Unknown

And so I don't want them there to like I wanted the kids to we did want the kids to come over. So I was like, just try out one more time and that one more time. The photo is some half fucking magically fit and I won't accept it. Your passport will be available in three days. The thing was, I was like, Holy shit, yes, it's fucking worked.

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Unknown

So I ran out the kids and said, all right, cool, make sure you're awake on this day because the curator's coming and my kids were sleeping in. You got a sign for school holidays? No. School holidays. You can't, you know, you couldn't, you know, they can't get to the and cousin works, so he couldn't. Yeah. I mean, you can't get to the passport office without me because, you know, Noel was underage, and, you know, so all these things cross.

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Unknown

I said, don't you fucking sleep through the courier arriving, make sure everything is all right. And, you know, kids being, you know, kids now. Ryan goes, I missed it. Yeah. I always try and fuck with you. Yeah they do, I always try to. Carsen does it as well. You wouldn't believe it. My phone dropped into the washing machine right.

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Unknown

I gotta tell you anyway. So yeah. So he rang me up and they said, yeah, my passport. And I was like, all right. So they booked their flights rather than there. So they came over, which was awesome. We were all together in Bali and we really didn't want to go home. And at this time, we had our flights work for 12 days and we just decided not to show up to them and just stay in Bali and then just figure it out again.

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Unknown

We were sitting in a situation where we didn't know how anything. We didn't even know what we were thinking in the moment. So, like, we're really taking people how to just fucking go and work to how the how will come the how will you made the decision. I always say this once you made the decision, you work everything out and and just on that, you know, I was thinking the other day when I was on a scooter, on my way to no such joy as an hour and a half away from where we live.

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Unknown

And I was going to Woman's Investment Entrepreneur event. And as I was on my way there, I had an hour and a half to think about my life and I was like, Holy shit! Like, how did I get here? And I sat there thinking the difference, which I mean a lot of people was that I actually just do I really do take action.

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Unknown

You know, a few years ago I was super unhappy offshore. I was I've saw the video of me on the bike. I was crying the day before I was flying home, and I made that decision. I wasn't going to go back to offshore. I quit my ten year career. I can't help but feel that I had a lot to do it.

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Unknown

Yeah, definitely big decisions because I'm like, fuck it. Like, yeah, you defied a lot. Who cares? Work it out later. Work it out later. So you're you're very good at, like, going okay, I'll make the decision. But what systems are involved I'm like, okay, we'll work it out later on. And I think we've got a lot more flexible over time.

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Unknown

So then I quit that. And so then I was like, how cool. Once I, I clothing brand. So I did that with the hair out light up. Then we said I blame you breath. We did that with the how out later. Then we moved to Bali. Did that work the how that later. And so the difference between me and so many other people in this world is that I just do things and we just figure out the how light.

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Unknown

It's what I teach people, the how it will always come once you decide what you actually, truly want to do in life. And you know what doesn't mean there won't be challenges, doesn't mean they won't be lessons, doesn't mean that there's not going to Hornsea like, Holy fuck, have I made the right decision? But the how will come?

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Unknown

That's so it's so interesting, isn't that to know that? Because I remember well, obviously we went back when the reason we left Bali was because we had to go back for Christmas. Yes. And, we'll just go into that. But we were in, you know, all your family coming from New Zealand, so it was really cool.

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Unknown

So we caught up with On Your Side, but you hadn't seen in a long time. And one of the uncles were upstairs. And the acoustics in the house, you can hear downstairs, and I remember your uncle saying, and I was at the top of the stairwell, and he said, I can't believe they're not going without any, luggage like we just took carry on, right?

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Unknown

Yeah. And like, let's kill it will go back to that something. But yeah, you're right. Like, all right, let's go back. So so we see you on the beach. You did breathwork. Yeah. So then you needed to come. Anyway, the kids were over, then we're like, I call. We missed the flights. We decided just not to turn up.

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Unknown

12 days. And then we were like, okay, well, we have to go back because I was, right. It was Christmas and it was also my dad's 60th. Yeah. So we had to go back. And also we had absolutely no idea that Bali had a 30 day rule, like, you could only be here for two days.

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Unknown

We actually had no idea about that. And we actually lived the day before that. That 30 days for each person, you get fined 1 million repair, which is $100. Yeah. Would you go on like, we didn't know anything about it. So we went back and we had no idea. No intention? No. We just had we didn't know what we were doing.

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Unknown

We came back to Australia and we instantly just, you know, you fall into Australia shit again. You just fall into your environment. Right? So we came back, we got into the same kind of thing, the same kind of energy, you know, it just you just fall back into life, you know, you back into the environment. And we had a beautiful home we lived in and and the Tonga and Bali we had, I had skimmed and I, anz bank, put all of our cards on hold.

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Unknown

And so in that time, we couldn't get any money out of having to get like, pay would, you know, people when you hear how, you know, like, can we can I borrow some money off you as we get home? There's all these things going on with our banks and and money and stuff like that. And, then we got back into Perth and in that time, everything was going.

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Unknown

It wasn't getting paid. And it's crazy because when we got back into Perth and like I said, life happened. And then we just actually kind of just forgot and we didn't get into the bank. We had so much going on and we manage my house and we wait, and we went to go back into the bank to go and get our money and stuff like that sorted out.

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Unknown

But we had some cash on us and we just kind of just forgot about it. And we just, we just wasn't a priority. And then I was night time. It was it was around about the 21st, I think of December not too long until Christmas. And it was like a like maybe 3 or 4 days before Christmas, I can't remember.

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Unknown

It was very close and but I was in the room and I was going through my junk mail for some reason. I think I was looking for something else, and it came out the real estate, and I was like, Holy shit, I've been, I've read this and we got the email and I yelled at to Beau, and I was like, bro.

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Unknown

And it's like, you're pregnant. Yeah. And he goes, what? I said, you have you guys. I said, have you checked your email? He goes, no. And I said, Holy fuck way. Getting evicted. And that was the fucking email. And he was like, what do you mean? And I was like, we're getting evicted. This is what they're saying now this is a moment.

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Unknown

Then in that time, fear, panic, failure, all the things were coming in where a two storey house, the upstairs was a three by two, where it was full of furniture of us and a lot of our shit, and we're like, what the fuck? Like, how are you going to? And it's like it was only days until Christmas, so there's only days of Christmas.

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Unknown

And so we so we got this later and obviously like all the seals come in. And just to put things in a context, life is happening for you not to you. 100%. And we wanted to get out of this place or because we wanted to move to we wanted to move to Bali, but we wanted to do it the correct way.

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Unknown

We wanted to the correct way. But we it's six months later on the place. And it's very interesting how life truly is happening for you, not to you. And what we found out was is a massive fucking loophole. So can I, can I? Yeah, yeah yeah. Once fear had had gone we were sitting in the room and we're like, fuck, what are we going to do?

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Unknown

And I looked at Beau and I cracked up laughing and I said, well, moving the fucking Bali. And I was like, what? And I said, this is it. It's the fucking push we needed. Well, this is what we needed. We weren't going to move the universe. And so mate, we'd already just spent 30 days. Yep. And we're like the universe.

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Unknown

, I think rent that was about: 5000

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Unknown

It was just over like eight grand or something. And we had the money. We just had those bank accounts. And then, so I rang them and. Yeah, as you do when you speak to people in Australia, sometimes, not all the time, but she was really rude. She was like, yeah, you know, and they trample fear tactics into if you don't pay.

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Unknown

We were like, we've got the money we want to pay. And I said, can we stop this? Like, you know, I'll pay you, blah, blah, blah. And they're like, no, you have to be out in this amount of time, blah, blah, blah. If you're not, we're, you know, the place and blah, blah, blah. And we were like.

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Unknown

And I'm like, fuck his hands up. Like, I'm like, I want to do the right thing. So, I said, I said, Kirsty. All right. Look, we there's two things that are going to happen. I said, we're actually moving in our overseas. So I'm like, you can either talk like this and we'll go and you'll get no money and you won't get anything, which is not what I want, but I want to do the right thing.

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Unknown

Otherwise I can give this $8,000 that we know and then we can go our separate ways. And I said, alright, we'll take the eight grand, make sure the house is clean. We had a five grand bond there. And I and I was like, look, you know, our house was great. It was perfect that we didn't say the bond because it was just like, no communication after that.

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Unknown

But I don't even know what happened. But basically, yeah, I don't know what happened with the bond, but we didn't bother because we were happy with a clean slate we didn't want to be. I grinned, maybe they got five grand bond, I don't know, that was crazy. Yeah, but but but for us, we're worried was stuck in this legal thing.

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Unknown

Right. And I was talking to real estate agents that I knew and mates that owned real estate companies and basically, you know, they're like, yeah, the law is the law or the shit. But they were happy to go, all right, just give us the five. Just give us the rent, you know, and get out and make sure they house.

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Unknown

to get someone else in paying: 1502

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Unknown

The real estate guy came over and we said hello. You know, I was like, I mean, any marks against I name on that? And I said, no, like, you've had stuff like, here's the case, you've given the case back, like it's all good to go. And we were like, Holy fuck, we would have been held in that place for another six months.

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Unknown

Life is heading for us. Our has got to go. And Jack banks got put on hold, couldn't pay the rent. Then we forgot to like we just didn't get get back into going to ANZ. It wasn't a priority for me. I was dealing with other things at that time. I was sort of going into business. Yeah. And so again, life is ending for you not to.

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Unknown

And that Christmas time as well, the New Year's. Yeah. So the life was fucking hell it was. Hector would just come back way to get Christmas present then it was your dad. 60th was my dad's 60th, yes, there's a lot. So we pretty much booked our flights the day after your dad. 60th. That's it. Way out of here.

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Unknown

What we did was we sold everything. Yeah, so we put a garage. This is. This is my domain. Yeah, this is his domain. I can. So this is where he shines. So. So we're having I'm having on Gumtree and Facebook Marketplace. Crazy I love it. I mean, basically, like I make friends. Basically he's putting a pin on Gumtree.

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Unknown

Yeah, he would sell anything. I was selling every fucking piece of stuff that we had. And, you know, it came down to I think it was like, yes. Oh no. It was like days before we had to be out of the house. And we had it was the day of. Yeah. The oh, sorry, the day of the night was not the night we had to be out of that house.

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Unknown

I a garage sale, I'll put on beers. Yeah. And soft drink and stuff for the kids. We still had about $40,000 roughly of Bella's label stock, I reckon. I lined up the whole garage with, like, bodysuit, shorts, crew necks, track pants, you know, oversize tees. So the whole garage was basically. And I had signs up, you know, been doing this and, you know, we we sold a lot of play label stock, but we were left with a lot, and it was like it was coming up at 3 p.m. and we still had a lot of stuff.

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Unknown

What are we gonna do? So, a friend reached out and we put on our stories like, we don't know what to fucking do. Like, we've got to be chair pick it up. So she picked it up a whole trailer, like I reckon it's still about is about $40,000. That's 40,000 left. We gave it away to charity. We gave it all to one charity.

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Unknown

So if you ever see the label stock stuff getting around, please tag us. Yeah. And we've put the label on a hold while we're coming to Bali and kind of where we want to go next and where we want to go next. So we do. We still are passionate about that. But we, you know, as and as we talk about in our We Breathe Success online program, a lot of people, they start saying, and I feel stuck in it, whether it's like the 9 to 5 or when they start a business.

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Unknown

And, you know, one of our clients is a masseuse and she's working from the afternoons at the moment because that works for her. Well, you know, for her client. Sorry. And, she's finishing at 7:00 at night, and she doesn't really want to do it anymore. And she's also feeling like she's finishing late. And I said, but you're in control.

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Unknown

It's your business. All. But my client's over this. And I said, that used to be us. Now, when something's not working for us, like we have people messages or every day when you bring and play label back, watch believe I'm not here. I need another shirt. But, mine got dirty. I lost my jumper and hit another one.

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Unknown

I'm. But you know what? Like, people feel stuck. Like they can't move or pivot and shift and no one. We wouldn't be where we are here. Now, if we're holding on to that 40 grand, we had to give away 40 grand and lose. But it's not a loss. It's just moving forward and moving, hurting. Sometimes you have to make those decisions to go, all right, this isn't working.

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Unknown

I need to pivot and shift here. Yeah. And that's what we teach our people. And you got to remember you got to do business for a reason. Most of the time is to make more money and trade in freedom. You know, and I think when you get into business and you get stuck in human design, helping other people, and then all of a sudden their needs become more important than your needs and before you know, you're never home, you're working 24 seven.

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Unknown

And that's not why you started. And we do a lot of thing. We pivot and shift all the time. Now, like I said, it's all working for us. No, we get asked all the time for one on, you know, and if we do do one on ones, they are at a very, very high cost because it's not what we specialize anymore.

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Unknown

We do more group stuff. We do more stuff with business or and I don't want the rest of my time to be working on my business, not in it. And also my family. I created the most incredible programs and and things that we're doing, you know, and we get so much vibe from working with in the community. Like I can is credible.

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Unknown

And what the, the rapid results we get is purely because it comes down to connection, say support, love and, you know, breakthroughs in manifestation, meditation, all this stuff. And I also believe like, you know, we did the events because we wanted to do the events and then we did, you know, an eight week online program, which is we did that because when people came to our events, they were hyped or inspired.

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Unknown

They were fucking the healing. But and then and then it was quite a humbling experience because you were like, well, we're having a lot of these emails and people reaching out saying, like, what? Now? Like a week later, they're going back the default setting. They're going back to that same job, that same relationship. They're falling back into that same cycle, and they didn't know how to like they needed to like, hey, I need more bone.

:: 22:54:09

Unknown

Kirsty. I need, you know, we're giving them breathing techniques or we're sending them things, but it's just not enough. So we ended up creating an online program, not for more money. There was nothing. No money. It was just for the fact that we wanted to create something that if you went to an online program, you wanted more than it was available.

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Unknown

Yeah, we didn't even we didn't even advertise it. It was just like if someone reached out, we said, oh, we've got this eight week thing if you want to join them. We only had ten people in it, so we're doing it for that. And then we had so much incredible experiences through that and people, people's lives are absolutely changed.

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Unknown

That's right. Craig's one of, massive success stories. You know, I didn't know his dad for his whole life. 35 years and our program, four weeks into the program, he said, hi, guys. Like, I feel like I want to reach out to my dad. And we're like, he had a whole community of, like, fucking A-lister. This was ten of us.

:: 23:40:05

Unknown

Yeah. And, you know, showed and love and support. And you've reached out to his dad, and his dad turned around and said, you know, I've always loved you crazy. And like, we have so much healing and makes us so emotional because you can imagine that that person went through life running his own narrative on what love looked like he was married enough, or, you know, like every relationship you went into, there was a situation there, the work all the stuff.

:: 24:05:04

Unknown

So, you know, we were creating message. I was out of it. Yeah. We love Craig. Like he's. Yeah, he's still very, very close to us. And so yeah, that's you know, that's that part of. Well and what I was just going to say is the reason we have way very success is because people who join and fuck yourself 3 or 4 times.

:: 24:21:09

Unknown

Yeah. 3 or 4 times coming back. And I'm like and I'm like, okay. Like I don't want to keep charging these people. And like, you know, it's like, well, why we ain't saying more again? So we've had to pivot and shift again. And that's why we created a 12 month online program where we made up all made up in Bali.

:: 24:36:03

Unknown

That's part of it for free. And we all get to catch up on we've got that community and we've got the school like it's we've actually nailed it now, what people actually need. So I feel like it's constant growth. And that's why I say in businesses like you said, like you've got to be constantly pivoting and shifting instead of being stuck harnessing.

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Unknown

So we've sold all of our stuff. We've had a garage sales, we've done all that kind of stuff. We went to my dad, it was flat five. Yeah, I was like 5 or 6 p.m. at night and we still will throwing stuff in the bin, all the really beans down the road, like if we had like lamps and shit last night.

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Unknown

It was crazy because again, everything happened. So it was bin week, which was and we'll talk about that. Like, you know, when we actually got to Bali, I was like, Holy fuck, like holy. Like what? Like we live. Yeah. You're driving away from that house the last time. Yeah. And video, it's quite emotional. Like, you know, again like again like mine.

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Unknown

And Bo's live happened so fast all the time. And they talked a process. And it's hard to process the process and grieve a house that you stayed in for. That was a home for so long. Like I didn't even grieve when I sold my home, you know? So that was massive. You know, you didn't even go to it for the last 4 or 5 days.

:: 25:37:16

Unknown

And I'm still moving. Yeah. So it's the last week of that. I just, I just told myself and I left and never grieved that house. We don't process grave or move through things like death or losing of a job or money or business or relationships. Then you start to dream about them or like subconsciously. So you get triggered or you get sad, or you get emotional because you haven't processed it through the body of the mind.

:: 25:56:22

Unknown

That's it. So we left that place. We went inside of those parents before Christmas, and then, and your dad, it was my dad's 60th, so we went to my dad's. See, that was amazing. Really awesome to have all the family there. And yeah, my uncles were from New Zealand. So it's really cool to see all my family from Zealand.

:: 26:14:23

Unknown

And yeah, my uncle like came down and he was just like, I just fucking can't believe that you guys are moving to Bali with chicken luggage. Like we did not take a suitcase. And at that point that's all I owned. We didn't care anymore. We've got some stuff in brother's house. But yeah, we do. We just bought the stuff we.

:: 26:32:02

Unknown

We didn't. We didn't care anymore. Like, you know. Yeah. For me, maybe I also came from a very materialistic background. We had a $100,000 Mercedes. We had two house, three houses. We won't offshore, oil and gas. We had beautiful things. My kids went to private schools. We ate good food. We eat out all the time. Like, you know, we're always have furniture, TV, like we had all the material stuff.

:: 26:54:03

Unknown

And I think we just wanted simple. It's funny now that we say that, because back then, that's all you want. You got to feel like a somebody if you don't own a house. Yeah. You know, at the age of 40, you're smiling. You're losing it. Yep. You know, these are tough people out there that it's 30s and 40s.

:: 27:12:00

Unknown

They don't have kids yet or married. You know, you feel this pressure from society and your parents and your friends that you have to be married and have to have this certain life, and then you go back then like getting rid of all that was like anxiety for me, right? Yeah. You know, and then and then now looking back, I feel like if I, if I was to like if I was to sign up to like a three year, four year apprenticeship or course.

:: 27:35:13

Unknown

Yeah. Or get a lighter, get a, a car loan or a mortgage. Yeah. And I did feel anxiety about signing that because I feel stuck or I have to be there or or start a job, like even we've been talking about doing some stuff in Dubai now and I'm like, I want to I want to go into real estate.

:: 27:53:24

Unknown

Right? And and I'm like, well, maybe I'll work for someone else just to get some, like experience here in the area and meet people and that and then I'm like, no, I don't want to be stuck. I don't want to get stuck in working. So we set our own company and we'll just figure it out like everything else.

:: 28:08:02

Unknown

So there's fear. There's fear moving out of that comfortability, and then there's fear about going back into it. And one very key point on this is your phone break, right? You would have anxiety if you left your phone at home. I forgot it, right. You need this phone. You need this device now. Your phone break. You never phone for few days or something.

:: 28:26:14

Unknown

Yeah. And then you got through that anxiety and then going back on the phone, I didn't want to go back on the phone turning it on. You fucking having a panic attack on all the messages. Like all the things so overwhelming, people like, you know, just just people like, I just don't want to turn the form back on and and I think that's honestly what, like Bali just everything's still here.

:: 28:46:16

Unknown

Everything's slower down the street. Ali time. You know, you walk down the street, no one's got AirPods in, no one's on their phone. You go in or the person you Melbourne, everyone's down. You will cost you. You get a small, you get a hell. Are you applicable? Yeah. Yeah. Well of course we go sekali you know you get you get interaction.

:: 29:04:11

Unknown

You, you sit in a line at the minima and never forget this. I was in the minima and we just moved to Bali and it was slow. Everyone was talking, everyone was slow. And like, you know, I'm getting fidgety. ADHD symptoms are coming up, I'm getting frustrated. And then my internal thing is going like, these people don't care about my time.

:: 29:21:15

Unknown

Then it disrespecting me. Like all this entitlements coming up and then this wave of like a deep breath and then, I ain't got to be nowhere. I ain't going to rush like, yeah. You know, every time that we go in Bali time now and then and I'm like, these guys are present. They're stuck. We're not in a rush to be to the next place.

:: 29:39:11

Unknown

We're not. They are saying we're just present. We're in the present moment. Nothing else. Having human experiences are interactions with each other 100%. And I'm like that to me, was like a massive wake up call that we don't do that in the modern Western society. We literally so worried about the next day or the next moment, or leaving dinner or getting up and walking to the toilet, and then we go to quickly get off the toilet and go to this in a way too quickly.

:: 30:03:17

Unknown

There's no present time. And when we are present and still we're on devices or distracted by TV alcohol, do you know what I mean? So like that was like fucking huge for me in that moment. Yeah, I totally agree. It's it's it's crazy. I like it's a new way of life. And that's why we set up people like, you know, when you come to Bali or a new place, you have different challenges, you have different stresses is different.

:: 30:26:15

Unknown

You know, like a power went out, you know, that's that's a whole nother thing. We're learning. Yeah. Learning. You know. But let's talk about like when we got into Bali. So I was anxious. Yeah. We got into Bali, we got into our hotel. The first time was fun. Yeah. Because we already we had a life back home to go to.

:: 30:43:02

Unknown

We had a house and things so fun for me. So let's talk about when we moved here. Yeah. Yeah. When I came here, with nothing and no return flight. And I left my family and I didn't know what I was going to say. My friends again, my sympathetic nervous system went to town. My ears were ringing out really bad.

:: 31:00:09

Unknown

Is vertigo because of bad anxiety? I get physical symptoms of anxiety. I get like tension through my face, my eyes. I get sensory, so I get sensitive ears and eyes. It's fucking horrible. But it's very crazy that, you know, I knew that there was a sense of panic. Like, what have you done? You made the right decision.

:: 31:22:20

Unknown

Like, what if this fails? Like, where am I going to live? Like, where do I go? And then, you stripping back like, so many layers of your normal comfortability and even though, like, you're like, fuck it. If it doesn't work out, we go back to Perth, we start your mom's house. Is that my parents? Just like where well looked after, you know.

:: 31:39:11

Unknown

But you're still is still there. So. So. Yeah. So first because of how you programed, right. Yeah. And I don't know, like it was hard to get into like a routine like, you know, find a gym. Right. You got to get up in the morning like there was a lot of news. That's what it was exactly one thing.

:: 31:56:21

Unknown

And the change for me is like, it was really hard to live in Bali because Bali for me was like, have a beer. Like, you get up at 8:00 in the morning, walk around people having a beer there, eating like so. We it took a while for us to like, you know, I stopped eating nasi goreng. We started well, actually, we got our first villa.

:: 32:14:24

Unknown

Yes. And we're like, because we wanted. We were sick of hotel hopping. Yeah. And we wanted a home and stuff. So we're gonna go to our first villa just to see how it was. This four bedroom was kind of nice and we went and brought steak. Yeah, we're going to make this steak and mushroom mushroom for a start to buy the butter, the oil the mate made super expensive and all that.

:: 32:33:05

Unknown

It was that expensive. It was like $150. Yeah. Just to buy all the grocery, like we put a bag of vegetables. Bag of this. I was still ten times cheaper than Australia. But my thing is I could buy all this. We could have ordered it in Gojek and it could have been there in half an hour. Know, you know, at your door, ate it, put it in the bin, no dishes, no cooking.

:: 32:54:23

Unknown

And so cheaper and cheaper and cheaper. And this food is healthy and cleaner. And the crazy thing is, like I try to cook the meal that I usually would, and it just was disgusting. I wasn't the same. It was a even Australian piece of steak and I just didn't like it. So anyway, that was the last time I ever cooked, so I just lost.

:: 33:10:21

Unknown

It's, you know, I actually it's that cheap too. This jump on Gojek, which is similar to like ribeye and is order whatever the fuck you want. There's that many restaurants and you get whatever you want delivered in half an hour, whatever you feel like them. So let's talk about so you know, when you first come over like it was, you know, for you is really just for me.

:: 33:29:03

Unknown

I was excited, I was pumped, I was like, I was out there. I manifested my clients, remember? I was like, hey, you've got two clients in the manifest this week. You got to like in that second room. I was like, why? What the fuck? I'm giving you a hard target, remember? Oh yeah. You're like, you're like, if you.

:: 33:41:22

Unknown

Yeah, you give me a KPIs. Yeah, I hit it in the first day. Yeah. And I was like, oh well I'm fucking up and your, you know, I know my work is done, I'm done. I'm flexing for the weight. I'm like going to get Bintang and then and this the thing when you're in a business like you do have to give yourself KPIs.

:: 33:54:04

Unknown

You have to give you self-talk. It's like, you know, I think that pay were just something that I just kept back. And we worked very hard back. Okay. Does I work very hard? You know, I create the systems, I carry the capabilities, and I do the work behind the scenes, you know, and I really am the driving force.

:: 34:09:17

Unknown

And I don't very well on social media too. Yeah I am, I'm picking up. I'm I'm like I've learned from the best, you know, I work up to the the events, you do the events, get some real estate. We had that going on and then we're like, hey, cool. You know, I gave nursing like borrows. I feel like I'm not doing this again.

:: 34:25:23

Unknown

Because obviously if you heard the other podcasts like, you know, I was like, fuck, when I want to go down here, we're going away. But anyway, we went and got this year of waxing, you know, the air thing done on it and breathwork. Yeah, I did breathwork and air came late and I said, you know, you start showing up every single day.

:: 34:39:12

Unknown

You know what to do. I sat in breath every morning. It's really easy when you're feeling like shit. You don't want to do a breath trick. You don't. You know that it's going to help you. But also when you're feeling good, you don't want to do better because you're like, why do I need? But I think because I'm more keen to like, when you're feeling good, you got a gym like, fuck yoga, gym power, you vibration.

:: 34:57:06

Unknown

Yeah. You vibration a little bit different, you know. So but when you're like feeling like there is not you just want to distract you want to watch TV when it's time bad all the things. So we had that going on. They were like, okay, we need to get our own. We wanted to have our own home and here comes the new challenge with getting your own fellow not knowing things.

:: 35:12:22

Unknown

So you got a new villa? We got a new villa. And that was cool. And is that the one for the direct owner? The direct on a yes. One with the dogs? Yes, yes, yes, we had a hundred thousand, straight. Although boy was like, man, I can't wait. Just not have the dogs, like, barking. Annoying because, like, you know, we had two dogs and it's right.

:: 35:32:23

Unknown

And our cows and Charlie would. But will Charlie different would walk downstairs and you wouldn't fucking believe. And this is why I always say you manifest what you don't want as well. I actually seen a real this morning from a realtor. He sells real estate in Australia. And you guys, before you buy any house, do this. And he slams the side gate and he's like, okay, a lot of people don't want to be around noisy dogs, right?

:: 35:53:22

Unknown

So if you smash the gates and the side doors and you hear no dogs happy because there's nothing like spending $1 million on your dream home and you've got dogs barking. So we moved into our beautiful new villa and we're like, fuck yeah, this is awesome. The kitchen to stay. And there was one class like, yes, this is it.

:: 36:12:18

Unknown

And then 3:00 in the morning, every clock of the morning. Dogs. Fucking dogs. Straight dogs. Great dogs. I reckon they'd get into trash. Straight dogs would tell the other stray dogs. Bro, calm down this alleyway, it is the place to live. And so we're like 15, 20 fucking stray dogs. 100,000 or so. That was our next lesson for the next house.

:: 36:38:07

Unknown

Yes. Right when we went to that next villa, that what I'm looking like for dogs everywhere. I'm like any dogs around here. Like, because we literally would stop. And that's what I mean. Like, life is constantly, you know, the system is looking for that threat. So, but the other thing is in Bali that, you know, electricity is very expensive.

:: 36:56:03

Unknown

And electricity, if you don't pay it just kind of just turns off. And I'm telling you right now, the electricity won't turn off at like 2:00 in the afternoon. It'll turn off at like 3:00 in the morning with the hottest night when your phone hasn't been on charge. Yeah. Yep. Your phone has a charge. All the things.

:: 37:13:05

Unknown

did go off one time at about: 12:00

:: 37:33:09

Unknown

We don't know about it and Noah's Wi-Fi hasn't gone off. So he's got no way of connecting, no roadblocks, no roadblocks, no, you know, no TikTok TV, no TV, no Netflix, nothing. Right. So he's at home for about three hours by himself. We took Holly out making origami. What is that? What this little thing is? I'm just trying to do what he can, and he comes like, we come in and he's like, oh my God.

:: 37:57:19

Unknown

The bell went off. I couldn't get in contact with, you know? I was like, I thought I was with it. You know, he wasn't responding to me. But the listeners here was Noah. Noah is very vigilant. He would come into my room, turn on the lights off, and I'm like, oh, now you get off. And you know what?

:: 38:12:06

Unknown

When you've got that angry dad or that army daddy's like, get out of the shower. My dad was like that. That was my dad, too. Yeah. And that's your association with money, right? Save the money, save the money. Save the money. Energy into saving the money because you work so hard for it all. Yeah, but, you know, you know, now, Noah's, aware and he turns his lights off, and he said it was in his room, sweating, but with aircon off because he didn't want the Wi-Fi to go out.

:: 38:36:05

Unknown

ery day. He's like guys, it's: 6800

:: 38:55:10

Unknown

Like, have you dropped the off? Yes. So now I know he's watching the Panama. It's so true. Like no one gives a fucking lesson directly. That's why you need bad shit to happen. That's why I need bad shit to happen to Honduras since your position shift. So we learned that lesson. Yeah, and then we had to get another villa, didn't we?

:: 39:12:11

Unknown

Yes. Yes. Most important fucking story of the Bali podcast. Moving to Bali. Yeah. So I'm, you know, looking on Airbnbs and stuff. Super expensive. Then I go to all these Facebook groups. So you got like kangaroo Real estate villas, Bali Villas, all these Facebook groups, and there's a house on there that I loved. I absolutely love this villa.

:: 39:34:11

Unknown

And I was like, the Kirstie and I'm super cheap. The guy was so nice, got his WhatsApp chip. It was like 30 grand. Yeah, it was still people. I tell people back in Perth you're like, oh, that's that's fucking more expensive than Bali rent. But you're getting clean as you're getting it's fully furnished. You've got TV's and everyone's a big boss.

:: 39:51:15

Unknown

It's a luxury three story. Yeah. You know, it comes with a gardener. Comes with a pool person. Yeah. Did I say Wi-Fi? Like. Yeah, yeah, everything's in there. Like, you know, you can't pay for the fucking thing like that back there with that. So anyway. And cleaners and shit. So you get everything, including this fucking villa, and then, anyway, I said to Kirstie, let's go look at this villa.

:: 40:14:21

Unknown

We'd actually looked at a few, but this was my favorite rock that met the people that loved it. Yeah, we were like, yeah, fucking absolutely. Just couldn't wait to invite friends and family over to this place. Three story. It was fucking nice. You say on our stories cozy stay shout out to cozy stay. They really looked after us, but it wasn't cozy.

:: 40:32:00

Unknown

Stay the first time. What? It actually happened? I got scammed on this villa. Hang on a bit. Let's talk about, like, just before that happened. We're sitting in the pool before you gave him the money. And I had an ill feeling. Hey, he said to me, I've just got a bad feeling. I had an ill feeling because I don't feel as I do something says snorts.

:: 40:49:20

Unknown

The gods parking area was a lot different. Everyone else. He was super desperate and he was like, oh, you know. But he he he. When we seen the villa, he was demanding money. And I'm like, you know, I get it. And he goes, there's people, other people that want it. So I get it. And I know the demand for Changyu area is like lots of people wanting villas.

:: 41:07:20

Unknown

So I'm like, whatever will pay it. So I paid $1,500 even though I didn't want to. You rang. I rang my my, my at the villa I was in. I knew the owner and I rang him and said, hey, look at this, a scam got an ill feeling goes, if you saw the villa, it's not a scam. That gave me the confidence.

:: 41:24:02

Unknown

Yeah. So. So I was like, yeah you're right now. So there's a there's a point here. His intuition told him that's right. Something wasn't right and I didn't listen to. But then he went and got some concrete evidence from someone else. An external validation. And then he went against his own intuition. And how often do we do that?

:: 41:45:15

Unknown

efore we need to pay for this: 1500

:: 42:03:18

Unknown

Yeah, paid: 1500

:: 42:19:10

Unknown

She was from Australia, was a really cool chick. She was basically telling us all this stuff. So, she told me the owners of the property was named Kosi states. All right. She had a cozy stay in, blah blah. And they said, no, we don't have a booking for you. And I couldn't believe it. Like, I'm like, not not sure.

:: 42:33:16

Unknown

Yeah. And I didn't care about the money. I love this property. You know, I was so devastated I couldn't get this villa and I was so excited. I organized friends and family to stay in it. Yeah. You seeing yourself, love? Yeah. See myself living. And I manifested it right. And I'm like, all right, well, I'm usually really good at manifesting things and this has come to a halt.

:: 42:51:04

Unknown

So I ended up meeting up with the guys from Kogi State. I penned, fucking amazing dude. Love you bro. And he would, you know, meet me and showed me all this stuff. I showed him the WhatsApp you guys, man, and he was using our pens name and it's the crazy stuff. So I'll tell you how he's done this scan and then I'll get into what happened after.

:: 43:12:00

Unknown

So random Guy doesn't even live in Bali. Where is he from? Somalia. So what he would do is go in and baby steal the photos. Chuck them on these Facebook groups, join like local Changi Village groups. Put out a cheap price but not super convincing. Cheap price. And then really, really good at talking. Really good. Then what he would do is like, you know, he would ring you, he'd talk to you on the phone.

:: 43:36:09

Unknown

He was really good. Now what he would do is he would go away, ring the actual people from the Airbnb and say, hey, I'm a real estate agent. I've got a client who's looking for a villa. They might like yours. Can I send them to your villa to look at that guy? Yeah, sure. All right. Here's the time and date night.

:: 43:51:06

Unknown

Between me and him talking to the people who actually are, he create a meeting. Now we go there. The Balinese don't speak much. You don't really say much. You like. Yep. Yep. You know, David, David was, what his name was, and they're like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Because he's telling them that you're a client of here. So when you say the name David, they're saying, yeah, yeah, yeah.

:: 44:08:11

Unknown

He rang Bob. So you're not knowing if David's the manager or not. You don't really know. Yeah. No, I didn't ask. You ask all the fucking right questions and then you can start piecing it together. So I left happy. They were happy. I said, yeah, I like the villa. They're like cool. Like, yeah, doing it. Yep. So you know and then now I pay David.

:: 44:26:04

Unknown

Now he's got nothing to do with the villa. Yeah. So now he's, he's still says. And then when I've come to him saying you say this and that, he's saying yeah, yeah, I'm cozy. Stay like he like you could literally give him all the evidence to say that he was a lie and he say, no, no, no, that's me.

:: 44:40:11

Unknown

That's not true. And I say, can I ring? Can you say that? Yeah. Ring him. Tell tell him I'm. I pen. So I ring cozy saying and say hey I pen. Does he work here? And they go yes I'm oh okay. It's real. He's new the name of. Yeah. Manager so very smart. I knew the engineers knew all the things to say.

:: 44:54:06

Unknown

I'm not catching up with my pen, meeting the real one. And he goes, man, this property's like 60 million a month, so double the price. Said, fuck, we don't want to pay that, you know? So we didn't want to pay that. Then we went to the other some other villas, which is oh, cool. And then come again.

:: 45:09:12

Unknown

Again a couple months later, we needed another villa, come across cozy stay again. And then I penned and he's like, yeah, it's me. And I'm like, oh fuck. So I said, look, can we do this villa? You guys look, it's actually we've got no one in it. We can do it for 35. I said 30 and you go and you guys I'll talk to the management.

:: 45:25:20

Unknown

So it took about a week and then we ended up getting it for the same price as a scam. And they pay the electricity for us. Then we did a deal and got it extended. Yeah. So I got my dream villa. Yeah. And the villa we're in right now. That I wanted to stay in. And it eventually came back around, didn't it, because I fucking manifest metaphysics.

:: 45:42:03

Unknown

And I wanted this to happen and it happened. Yeah. You do always get what you want. Yep. And the thing is, what I wanted to say is when we go back to Australia now, we had to go back to Melbourne for our tour. We couldn't justify Kirsty goes out into a boat, which is like an hour out of Changi in the forest, jungle, waterfalls, jungle.

:: 45:58:17

Unknown

It's really spiritual out there. You pay what, $29 for a box? Beautiful big, big room in the middle of the jungle. Just lovely and central with all your restaurants, cafes. You open up the balcony. There's fucking animals like you know, and. And now when we go back to Perth, like we're going back to Australia this weekend and we want to we're going to stay with my parents, but we want to go and like, you know, go to the casino and it's like, you can't justify spending paying three, $500, which we used to get the full 800.

:: 46:29:07

Unknown

We used to get the big room, we used to go to retailers and it's crazy. Yeah. And this is that's like your rent for them on this. You know, this is the true, realization of how much you've grown and changed as a human being. Because for me, like, we used to spend all money on hotels and nice fancy hotels and that and we wouldn't think anything of it.

:: 46:47:19

Unknown

Now I've just my value system. I would not spend $800 on a hotel room in Australia. You know, like if I'm spending $800 a week over here would be some fricking amazing thing. And to be honest, you know, I went off state, was started a lot of places. Now I've started five star is a three star places. And you know, to be honest like I really enjoy more.

:: 47:09:02

Unknown

So staying at the ones. Yeah. Better quality people like, you know, the people around Toronto. Nice. The five star places, they're just like, they just don't have that. They don't have that finesse that that thing, you know? So yeah, and that's just my personal opinion. And it's because I've changed as a human being, you know, I've changed.

:: 47:26:16

Unknown

And what my opinion can't justify it. Like I just don't want to spend 300 bucks on a room when I live in Bali. And you can pay $29 to go in Spain. Exotic jungle. And I try also think this like, you know, we've made the most money we have in our business over the last few months, probably last six months is where we really have elevated in our business and our money is spending our money habits and our money manifestation.

:: 47:47:22

Unknown

And how much money, once it relationship to money is slightly different. And that is why now, like, you know, we do have that bank full of money because beforehand we were literally just splashing it all out on anything to feel something. And this is why this is why I say, like in Bali, you feel Bali, you feel happy.

:: 48:06:07

Unknown

You know, back then I was buying hotels and all the fancy things by to feel rich. Now I feel rich internally, not externally. That's the difference. And really like when we worked offshore Fifo, like we always say, you know, everyone goes, I'll work away and I'll buy a house and I'll invest all my money, but you're spending goes out.

:: 48:23:09

Unknown

You buy clothes a little bit more, a little bit more expensive, there's a little bit more expensive that. And then before you know it, you live in week to week again. You live in week to week, an 809 live in the week. We take on four grand and then they keep you just at that amount of money for your sort of work and labor as a state, just just to keep you just happy enough.

:: 48:42:18

Unknown

So you just leave Sunday job. Yeah. So yeah. But anyway, so that was kind of like, you know, the story of how we moved to Bali. And since we've moved to Bali, like, well, we've been to Singapore and Malaysia, we've been around Australia. And every time we leave we ever get this sense of anxiety. Your skin plays up, you get this random cough, migraines.

:: 49:01:14

Unknown

Noah's skin plays up. So, you know, migraines, tension in the shoulders, in the neck and stuff. And like here the people are people of service. So like, I cannot stand when people come to Bali, Indonesia, and I see other Australians. Yeah. Well other cultures of people, which I'm not going to name, I'm definitely not racist. But you see all different people coming to this country and trading the Balinese like shit.

:: 49:21:24

Unknown

I cannot stand it. And you go to restaurants and I do man this, whereas this. What do you think? Who the fuck do you think you are? I like to speak like that. Like Balinese, like we always tip them and we always give them money. And, like, you know, I love bartering and shit. It's fun. But like, at the end of the day, like, you know, people here, acts of service, they love language.

:: 49:40:17

Unknown

They just want to help. And most of the time, like the other day, we were stuck at that toll and we couldn't get through. And I'm trying to give him money and he goes, nanana! I've been that person before. 100. That's what I just love about Bali like. And I honestly, truly believe that Bali brings out the best in people.

:: 49:55:06

Unknown

Since we've been here, we we go to obsidian. Jen. Just. Jen. Yeah, I know the hottest people on the are the hottest human beings. I was. And I've never seen chicks look like this in my life time. I'm like looking at dudes as inspiration. Like, well, I'm like, no, it's literally like, you took the hottest human beings in the world and is planted them in this gym every year.

:: 50:13:01

Unknown

I'm like, either porn star model or OnlyFans. Yeah, person. Just stunning. And like, I mean, they also they're not even wearing makeup. They just like woke up beautiful European stunning. Yeah. Like you're absolutely stunning. And and there is a lot of OnlyFans people here. Like there is a lot of like, you know people online workers and supply auction chicks and fans and with this like, no.

:: 50:33:01

Unknown

So I started going to Obsidian Fest 6 a.m. to six at night and I'd be like, what the fuck are you doin there? And I'm literally going, yeah, I do my work up. I go for a swim, I work there, and then I connect a network with people. And this was my first big, You can't sit there either, because I go to obsidian now to shout out to Sydney.

:: 50:51:03

Unknown

Yeah, but, we are like, we'll sit there and someone will go, hey, can I sit here? It'll be a guy or girl and they want no interest in you. They just want to say hi to what do you from what do you do here? We're talking about business, and I'm like, oh, fuck yeah. You do events like I've got an event marking that.

:: 51:06:05

Unknown

Yeah, here's his WhatsApp. He helped me to do events all around, Europe. Yeah. You know, and then people are like, in a way, a guy who's like, sorry, you see a guy that's a jack tats, great looking blue eyes. Like the hottest dude you've ever fucking say in your life, and you're intimidated by him. And then he'll come up and, like, talk to you.

:: 51:25:14

Unknown

And he's like, not up himself. He's not a cock. He's not great and the same as the chicks, like, you know, you say these girls and like, they're like, oh, like they're we're basically nothing, you know, like you see everything and then you expect them to be real prudish and up themselves and like, not past how small that allows you to it throws you off because you're in like a gold stream or something like that.

:: 51:45:24

Unknown

Not saying anything bad about gold, but like, you know, the the reputations of these beacons are there even just Australian, just in Australia, like, you see these big guys or they goes, oh, there you go. And just insecure ego and insecure is what I'd really say, what it is, you know, and like I was saying like, you know, Bali is like that connection never can like everyone wants you here.

:: 52:05:00

Unknown

Everyone has a number to help you when like, you know, even, like, now we're here in lighthouse, you know, our house where we do. Yeah. Like, you know, Montecito has given us context. You know, we've got a meeting with them after this. Yeah. You know, everyone just wants you to win. And this is what I absolutely love in Bali.

:: 52:20:13

Unknown

There's no competition. There's no anything like that. Everyone is here for the same reason. And I truly believe it's because I've always said, if we could take Balinese culture and we could sprinkle that shit over the world, there will be very, very different place. And if we could just take one thing from love, how they are and how they think and feel and the love that you feel when you around Balinese culture, it is something else.

:: 52:43:15

Unknown

And I truly believe the world has a lot to learn from Balinese conversation. And what I said the other day as well is like when you go from like where you came from to where you are now, and then you don't realize that when you go back to where you came from, you're like, was this always this bad?

:: 53:00:15

Unknown

Or people are like, for instance, you go back to Bali and your friends want to talk about their exes, about you mean what they say, and so do you mean back to Australia? Yeah. Sorry. What do I say? You picked Bali. So when you go back to Australia, to Perth, to where you come from, you know, you find your friends are going like, oh, did you see a soul mate story, like, how are they hanging out?

:: 53:20:07

Unknown

Like, who the fuck? Or like, my boss is such a kind, like he's giving me all these hours, blah blah. And I'm like, what the fuck? And like, I've even talked to a few friends lately about helping him start business or doing something. They're like, oh, I can't do that. I got kids, I got this. Yeah, I feel like, so start out on what?

:: 53:34:15

Unknown

And then and then I said to one of my, although we have kids, we said, yeah. I said to one of my friends, I want to move to the bar. And he's like, you've never been there. I'm like, yeah, I'm just going to go check it out. He goes, well, that's a bit risky and, risky for what?

:: 53:45:13

Unknown

Like my my friend's always been like this, like so, so constricting on, like, what I can do with money. And so you can imagine how you would be a partner to your environment. Right. And you start to think that. So someone else will jump out first to get I wanted to move to Gold Coast and you're like, oh, never.

:: 54:01:16

Unknown

I'd never leave Perth because my family, I never leave my family, you know? And that was really a big thing. I was like, fuck! Like, you know, I will not be in Perth for the rest of my life. So are we going to have a situation us down the track with us now, now, now. I feel like now I feel like, well, we've been everywhere and every time we come back to Bali, like, so grateful and like, you know, we were in Melbourne and not backing out.

:: 54:21:23

Unknown

I'm not buying anyone. I don't bang anyone out. But you know, we jumped. You know, we had all this shopping choice. I was just on the phone and I literally had all my stuff there and, you know, shopping bags. I didn't get out of the car. I got in and it took me ages to one bag, two bags.

:: 54:36:12

Unknown

So yeah, the whole trolley. Yeah. And then by the time you'd like, done the boot and got in and he's on the phone or doing. Yeah I was, I how I was like I just, I couldn't believe and I'm like I'm not saying that I expect Balinese people to run around after us. But it gives you like you when you know, even some of the last time, like, what do you do?

:: 54:54:12

Unknown

Like you're more focused on trying to help other people. And so this is why Bali has created that culture. That is why there's so much networking opportunities there. Because again, I think it comes back down to that entrepreneur. I mean, that culture, that culture's rubbed off on the people that are here and everyone wants to help because that is the in front of you.

:: 55:14:03

Unknown

And I think with the entrepreneurs, they built their own life so they appreciate it and they're grateful for it. But the, the Balinese have fuckable. So they're happy with fuckable and they're happy with the simple. But know that they understand real life. They understand that present the real self with for them is actually the real life is like, you know, actually having it's not yours, it's family.

:: 55:33:15

Unknown

It's connection is sharing is it's it's life. And that's the thing is it's experience. And that's why now, like even we do birthdays differently, you know, like up until Harvey this year, you know, I was more about having the experience. He only had like 3 or 4, maybe six presents. Old May $2,000 for the prisons. We went out, had the best day, had a bit.

:: 55:53:24

Unknown

And it was about connection experiences. But I still feel like I had to give him presents open, right? Yeah, basically we still see them as okay, but it wasn't what I was used to because like, you know, our views have changed. We're not all that materialistic. So. Yeah. And I feel like when you're in Australia, like the more you're entitled, like the new PlayStation, the newer Xbox, the bigger PC, the more lollies, the bigger cake.

:: 56:15:09

Unknown

Like, you get that from a kid like we're all trying to outdo each other on Instagram with like, what we give our kids. Like, I seen a kid have a birthday the other day. I was like a three year old. The whole floundering look bigger than any Christmas I've ever had. And like, these aren't super rich people. It's like, what are you trying to prove?

:: 56:29:04

Unknown

And then you creating this thing and I'm like, I'm not saying don't spoil your kids, but what are you trying to make up for to like, share parenting or something? But my thing is one was always go, yeah, what's your skill? Yeah, but my thing is, sorry, not chic parenting, but maybe you feel guilt, right? Yeah. Good. Good way to work.

:: 56:44:16

Unknown

Sorry. But also what I'm saying is, like, the more you give a kid and the more you give a human being, the more they fucking want. Yeah, well, why are you sitting me? Shane wrote a very, very different my 19 year olds very entitled. My 14. You know business is the same. And two, we feel grateful for our current life and our current business.

:: 57:00:23

Unknown

We're not going to move forward 100%. That's it. All right. Well that's Bali, that's why we're here Bali values vibe while Bali. Yeah love volleyball is change your life. And you know I think everybody should experience Bali and then take we wanted to try that stuff and then we went to all these other places. And like every time we come back here, we always feel moment.

:: 57:20:21

Unknown

We get back on to Bali soon. The airport walking through. Yeah. It's just like, oh my God, I can't even if there's a long line. No we don't care. Yeah, just like we don't care. It's hot. It's just it feels like home now. That's exactly right. Awesome. Well, there we go. Now, the episode of us talking, we got there.

:: 57:37:23

Unknown

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